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Showing posts with label Tips. Show all posts
Decorating Your Nursery
on a Budget
Written By: Stephanie Drye
Having a baby is such an exciting time! I find that parents-to-be want nurseries with style, but feel that they cannot achieve this due to a limited budget. Have no fear! Here are some decorating tips that won't bust your budget.
Baby Bedding 
You don't have to pay hundreds of dollars for good looking bedding. I spent a great deal on my son's nursery bedding and never used it. Shop at Wal-Mart, K-Mart, or Target. They have really attractive bed ensembles at great prices.
Accessorize
You can always accessorize your nursery with custom made art to add a uniqueness to your nursery decor. Be sure to include ample lighting and soft fabrics implemented in your drapes and pillows.
Choosing Paint
Never underestimate the power of paint! Close your eyes and think of red. Now think of blue. What emotions do those colors elicit? When I think of red, I think of excitement...vibrance. When I think of blue, I think of all things tranquil. Painting your nursery walls is a great, inexpensive way to add visual interest.
Try an interesting mix of colors. Get paint samples from paint stores and play around with color combinations. Unexpected color combinations can compliment each other. Ask your family and friends for their opinions if you are unsure.

Hot Color Trends for 2009
1. Pink, White/Cream, and Brown
2. Blue, White/Cream, and Brown
3. Lime Green, Navy, and White
4. Purple, Apple Green, and White
5. Fuchsia, Orange, and Baby Pink
6. Navy, White, and Red
7. Aqua, White/Cream, and Tan
8. Lavender, Soft Apple, and White
Paint Techniques
You're not limited to just painting all four walls the same color. Have fun with it! Paint three walls of the nursery one color and paint one wall a different color. A perfect place for the accent wall would be where the crib will be placed. You can also add a chair rail and paint the wall above the chair rail one color and below the rail another.
Feel free to think outside the box. Add a design. Mix it up with stripes using a high quality painters tape. Get a template for circles or dots. The possibilities are endless.

You don't have to pay hundreds of dollars for good looking bedding. I spent a great deal on my son's nursery bedding and never used it. Shop at Wal-Mart, K-Mart, or Target. They have really attractive bed ensembles at great prices.
Accessorize
You can always accessorize your nursery with custom made art to add a uniqueness to your nursery decor. Be sure to include ample lighting and soft fabrics implemented in your drapes and pillows.
Choosing Paint
Never underestimate the power of paint! Close your eyes and think of red. Now think of blue. What emotions do those colors elicit? When I think of red, I think of excitement...vibrance. When I think of blue, I think of all things tranquil. Painting your nursery walls is a great, inexpensive way to add visual interest.
Try an interesting mix of colors. Get paint samples from paint stores and play around with color combinations. Unexpected color combinations can compliment each other. Ask your family and friends for their opinions if you are unsure.

Hot Color Trends for 2009
1. Pink, White/Cream, and Brown
2. Blue, White/Cream, and Brown
3. Lime Green, Navy, and White
4. Purple, Apple Green, and White
5. Fuchsia, Orange, and Baby Pink
6. Navy, White, and Red
7. Aqua, White/Cream, and Tan
8. Lavender, Soft Apple, and White
Paint Techniques
You're not limited to just painting all four walls the same color. Have fun with it! Paint three walls of the nursery one color and paint one wall a different color. A perfect place for the accent wall would be where the crib will be placed. You can also add a chair rail and paint the wall above the chair rail one color and below the rail another.
Feel free to think outside the box. Add a design. Mix it up with stripes using a high quality painters tape. Get a template for circles or dots. The possibilities are endless.
Photos Courtesy: HGTV.com
From the Runway...to the Subway
Every season, fashion addicts anxiously gather under the tents to determine exactly “What’s hot!” for the upcoming season. Similar to the fashion showcased at these events, beauty trends are also determined by what is seen strutting down the runway. Leading make-up artists are inspired by the couture creations and ultimately, introduce distinguished trends for the months to follow. But let’s face it, while much of what we see on the runway is innovative and exciting, it isn’t exactly appropriate for the real world. Feather eyebrows and a gold tutu on the subway are definitely a bold statement, but perhaps not the brightest idea. Ok, it’s bright but certainly not right. Fortunately, our beauty team has the inside scoop on this summer and fall’s hottest beauty trends. Hit the beach, the office or the club with runway-inspired but real world approved gorgeous looks.In contrast to last year’s subtle bronzing and barely there make-up, this summer’s natural look is all about precise sculpting of the face ---highlighting and contouring at its best. The skin-tone, neutral colors haven’t changed but the application techniques have become a bit more advanced to produce photo-lighting effects without the camera. From the office to the club, this look is great for anytime because everyone loves a natural beauty. It can easily be taken up a notch by adding a pop of color on the lip or smoking out the eye for a tough glamour look. Try Stila’s Purrfect Eye Talking Palette to achieve a naturally contoured eye or a sultry smoky eye in under a minute. The talking palette—yes, I said talking palette, has a Stila professional artist talking you through the relatively simple application steps and techniques. Cool.


Great buffing and blending is the key to maintaining the natural feel of this look—soft lines, soft colors with satin finishes. Often we are concerned with time and there’s a huge misconception that blending can take forever. Given the natural colors used in this look, it doesn’t have to be so labor intensive and can actually be achieved with one great medium-sized brush.Tip #1: Always start light & sheer with a color, then build on that color for more dimension and intensity. It is much easier to blend a thin layer of color rather than several layers.
Tip #2: Look at your face under natural light. You should be able to see the natural highlights and shadows of your face. Use this as your guideline for enhanced sculpting of the face. Where the light hits naturally, exaggerate with further highlights. Where shadows fall, exaggerate with further contouring.



It’s important that you invest in a great foundation and concealer because this look is all about the skin. Cover FX The Big Cover Up! Complexion Perfecting kit is a wonderful starter kit and even comes with an instructional video. Another great do-it-yourself kit is the Bare Escentials Brow Kit. For such a clean, sculpted look, proper brow shaping will be necessary. Try MAC’s Cream Colour Base in Pearl for a shimmery pop on your cheeks or NARS’ Monoi Body Glow II for a dewey, sun-kissed look. Buff and blend colors on the go with the Too Faced Retractable Kabuki Brush. Finish the look off with a natural, but long lash. I love MAC’s lash in #7 because it is one of the most natural lashes in shape and length on the market. If you aren’t too keen on glue near your eye, try Imju’s Fiberwig Mascara. This funky Japanese mascara is some of the greatest stuff on earth, adding thickness and length to your natural lashes using tiny micro-fibers. It’s kind of like extensions for your lashes and the best part is they just fall off with water minus the smudging mess.



Make-up artists love to pay homage to great eras and this year, the 80’s have made a funky-fresh comeback on the runway. Granted, this decade was all about uncontrolled exploration of color and harsh lines---often times too over the top and down right scary. Yeah I said it. Don’t worry. The New 80’s Chic trend is not a literal translation. 80’s inspired make-up of 2009 is deliberate, bold and refined. Got a bright lip color that you haven’t dared to wear just yet? Last year, did you get talked into purchasing a neon green eye liner that’s now hidden in the back of your make-up drawer? Well it’s time to dust off these former faux pas and put them to work. But before you overdose on your new pink sonic lip gloss, here are a few tips to keep your “chic” from turning into a clown.
Tip #1: Focus on one feature. There’s no need to be bold in color on your lips, your eyes and your cheeks. That’s certainly a recipe for disaster that can easily be avoided.
Tip #2: Once again blending is going to be paramount in executing a flawless 80’s inspired look. For eyes and cheeks, using a small amount of make-up, gently buff the color onto your skin. You can continue to intensify by adding product in increments.
Liners are irreplaceable this season. For both lips and eyes, you will want to have a great selection of colors that can go on smoothly. Use the MAC lip pencil in Cherry to create a defined, bold red lip with precision. It adds longevity to your lip color, especially if you prefer lip glosses and can help you maintain pouty, full lips throughout the day. Contrary to misconception, lip liners do not have to be paired with an exact match lip stick. I prefer playing with shades of lip glosses to find new colors that work with my overall look. Remember that lip liners require blending with the gloss or lipstick it is applied with. A sassy eyeliner, such as Make-up Forever’s Aqua eyes in Shimmering Plum, can intensify a coordinating eye shadow or can give you burst of clean color over a neutral eye. Because this eye pencil is a liner and shadow in one, it’s a perfect way for novice beauty lovers to play with colors in a controlled manner.
If you really want to have fun with color, eye shadow palettes are a great investment. Try the Coastal Scents 88-color eye palette, which comes in matte or shimmer. Although the pots of shadow are tiny, they really pack a punch with delivering color. For those of you that think 88 colors is overkill, try NARS Duo eye shadow in Jezebel. These duos are fabulous because they take the guess work out of coordinating shadows. All purpose make-up can really come in handy for an 80’s inspired look. If you know a particular color works for your skin, then it’s a bonus when you can use it multiple places on your face (not necessarily all at the same time). Hands down, NARS’ The Multiple is one of the best multi-use make-up sticks available. It goes from crème to powder and can be used on the cheeks, eyes and lips. Finally, use Make-up Forever’s HD Microfinishing Powder sparingly to set your look. It is tremendous at reducing shine and absorbing oil accumulated throughout the day.
What’s Hot & What’s Not

What’s hot? Karen’s Body Beautiful is hot. A healthy, holistic approach to beauty, KBB has handmade hair, body and bath products. From natural to permed, KBB has got the right hair product in the right scent for you. Try KBB Hair Milk as a moisturizing, detangling, and defrizzing leave-in conditioner! www.karensbodybeautiful.com

What’s hot? Nail Candy is hot. It’s not all about the French manicure anymore. Try Sephora’s Nail Polish in It’s All About Me for funky, fresh 80’s inspired nails! www.sephora.com

What’s not? Peel-off eyeshadow is not. I’m a huge advocate for do-it-yourself kits, especially in our current economy. But, make sure you aren’t throwing away your money. Kits like these never really work and promote application laziness!
Blossoming With Little Sun
Written By: Nathaniel Upshaw, Jr.
Written By: Nathaniel Upshaw, Jr.
During this current economic environment, it is imperative that everyone in the workforce to become dynamic employees. In this context, being dynamic is referring to being flexible and not stagnant. The days of the age old phrase “it’s not in my job description” is no longer an acceptable stance in the workforce and will leave you unemployed. Now is the time to step up at your perspective workplaces and demonstrate that you are a team player, and that you are committed to the success of the organization.
Now, some people are of the mindset “I’ve been in this job for 10, 15, or 20 years and I haven’t had to do this and that”… You’re right! But I’m sure in the last 9 months, you know of somebody that has gotten the pink slip. The sad thing is that quite a few of these people had been with these organizations for a while and had invested many years and ideas into the organization. This is not an excuse to be discouraged from continuing to give your all in the workplace. Here are some tips to assist you in blossoming.
Take on more responsibility:This sounds much easier than it is done in practice. For some, being able to juggle your current responsibilities is taxing enough without thinking about adding more tasks to your plate. When considering expanding your duties at work you must be sure that you are currently meeting or exceeding expectations in the tasks that you have currently been assigned. Secondly, you need to consider the impact on your personal life. Lastly, you must ask yourself “Will taking on more responsibility be viewed favorably for me to advance?”. Remember, your employment should be mutually beneficial. It’s not about you going to work for a paycheck, but it’s about you fulfilling the company’s initiatives and your personal goals as well.
Learn about other areas within your organization:
Depending on the size organization in which you are employed, there may be instances where you can expand your knowledge and skill set while remaining in the same job. For instance, I was once employed at a bank. Within the bank, there were a large variety of jobs that were being done. Tasks from information technology, to finance and accounting, to community outreach and social services. Personally, my focus in undergraduate was math and computer science and I had no inclination to be in the financial sector. But by partnering with various teams and departments in the organization, I got a chance to learn more about the financial world, the role in which banks play in the community and world at large, and how I could use this information to my advantage to accelerate my career in a direction that I was enjoying.
Enroll yourself into “sticky” programs:Most organizations have programs that were designed to mold their employees. Programs that may focus on management training or business efficiency or whatever the purpose may be. Other programs allow for employees to obtain degrees that are beneficial for the success of the business. Usually, all of these programs come with stipulations that require the recipient to remain with the organization for a set period of time (generally 2-3 years after completion). Now, let’s look at this situation from a business perspective. If you have someone that has been receiving thousands of dollars to go to school to advance themselves in the workforce, are you more likely to lay them off, or will you let someone go that seems “comfortable” in their current position?
Right… Companies tend not to terminate employment of someone that has a vested interest in the organization. They understand that the individual will be better equipped to perform the duties that are assigned to them and would remain employed to perform the tasks at least throughout the duration of the agreement. Truthfully speaking, this is not a guaranteed method to hinder your employer from terminating your position, but if you are enrolled in a program and you are laid off, you walk away with something more than you had at no cost to you. You then will be able to utilize both the experience that you obtained from that job, and the education that they paid for.
Volunteer:
Volunteering is one of the most selfless acts that you can do. If you think of this as something you’re doing that you are not being paid for, you’re correct…. Kind of! In the corporate world, volunteering can go a long way. It’s beneficial whether you’re in a large or a small company. In a large company, you can expose yourself to other co-workers that you normally would not interact with. These people can become your allies in case you are interested in moving to another area within the organization. In a small company, it gives you the ability to be seen outside of the workplace. Managers and other team members can get a chance to see you as more than a co-worker. They are able to learn more of your passions and may be able to assist you in reaching your goals. I’m not saying sign up for every volunteer event, because whatever you do needs to be something that you have an interest in. This will make the experience for you more enjoyable and your actions more sincere.
Finally, although there is no true way to dictate our career futures, we still can plan for success. There are many roads to success and no matter what road is taken, there will be many pitfalls. These tips can be used as methods to assist you in navigating your career paths. In the end, you know what needs to be done for your own personal situation. Set your goals. Make a plan. Put it in action… Lastly… Don’t be scared to revisit and revise.
Photos Courtesy: spezio.com and kickthemallout.com

Photos Courtesy: spezio.com and kickthemallout.com
FAB FIVE FOR FELLAS
Written By: Diaz Allen
What makes a fashion ensemble is the finishing touches. Here is a compilation of some of my fall must haves that are sure to have people noticing your fabulous flair for fashion.
Tod’s
Gommini 122 Moccasin
$375 saks.com

2.
Prada Infusion d’Homme
Eau de Toilette, 3.4 oz
$74 neimanmarcus.com

3.
Emporio Armani
Leather Watch
$195 bloomingdales.com

4.
Prada
North-South Nylon Tote
$495 neimanmarcus.com

5.
Dior Homme
Aviator Sunglasses
$295 saks.com

Tod’s
Gommini 122 Moccasin
$375 saks.com

2.
Prada Infusion d’Homme
Eau de Toilette, 3.4 oz
$74 neimanmarcus.com

3.
Emporio Armani
Leather Watch
$195 bloomingdales.com

4.
Prada
North-South Nylon Tote
$495 neimanmarcus.com

5.
Dior Homme
Aviator Sunglasses
$295 saks.com


